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MARK GERSTEIN:This is Mark Gerstein and today is November 10th, 2011. I'm here
at the Yiddish Book Center in Amherst, Massachusetts with Sheila Horvitz and weare going to record an interview as part of the Yiddish Book Center's WexlerOral History Project. Sheila, do I have your permission to record this interview?
SHEILA HORVITZ: Yes, you do.
MG:Thank you. Okay, let's start out with: Can you tell us about your family background?
SH:Okay. Well, I was born at Beth David Hospital in Manhattan, July 11th, 1944.
My parents had married July 19th, 1943. They were proud. I was a war baby. My 1:00husband and I always joke that we're still war babies. We're on the cusp of thesexual revolution. We got married in 1965, just when the free speech and thesexual revolution was brewing but we're really war babies, the two of us. My dadwas a graduate of City College in New York, in the '30s. He was a chemist butbecause of anti-Semitism, he couldn't get a job after college. He went into thepost office and that's where he worked until he enlisted in 1941. He was amaster sergeant in the army, in the Quartermaster Corps, and he was at D-Day.And interestingly enough, I was conceived in Petersburg, Virginia because aftermy folks got married, a few months afterwards and around November, I'm assuming,1943, they were in Petersburg, where my dad was stationed at Fort Lee, nearRichmond, in Petersburg before he was shipped off to Europe. So, I didn't see my 2:00dad in person until 1945. I was about a year-and-a-half old. And the familystory, as it goes, was that every night, my mom would sing me to sleep,(singing) "You are always in my heart even though we're far apart." That was avery popular song at that time and as she sang, she would point to thephotograph on the bureau: that was my dad. And she'd say, "That's your dad." Andthe story goes that when he finally came home in 1945 and I was ayear-and-a-half old, my mom said to me, "Here's your daddy!" And I said, "No,no, that's my daddy!" And I pointed to the picture. Whether it's true or not,it's a nice story. But I always, in my life growing up and even as an adult nowand as an aging person, I know how awful World War II was and my dad, I know,came back with probably post-traumatic stress. They didn't put a name on itthen. But somehow, in my mind, I romanticized it. My parents were both products 3:00of New York, although my mother was born in Russia and I'll tell you about that.But they met at Pennsylvania Station. My dad was on his way probably, I think,to Fort Dix in New Jersey doing -- he was in the army. My mother, who worked atGoldsmith Brothers in the area around City Hall, in the Battery area of thecity, in Manhattan -- and she was on her way to Philadelphia to visit with aboyfriend and they met on the train. And the story goes that he asked her forher number but she wouldn't give him her telephone number. She said, "I'm Evelynat Goldsmith Brothers. You can contact me there." And he did and they weremarried shortly thereafter. So, I always look at that as a very romantic story, yeah.
MG:Can you comment about your mother's immigration?
SH:Yes.
MG:Yeah.
SH:And it has a lot to do with the Yiddishkayt because I'm of the generation
4:00where many of my contemporaries are not as interested in Yiddish as I would hopeor I would like to be because they did not have the Yiddish at home, even thoughthey're products of grandparents who came from Eastern Europe. I was soimpressed with Aaron Lansky's speech at the opening of the Yiddish Book Center.I'm very proud to say I was a founding member and my name is on the plaque inthe front of the building as you walk in. And my mother and I were lookingforward to that opening so much because she -- my mother considered herself aYiddishist, and I'll explain how that came about, too. Unfortunately, my mothercouldn't make the opening. She was living in New York City at the time. I livedin Connecticut. We were very excited about it, especially the connection,because my husband is from New Bedford and the Horvitzes knew the Lansky familyfrom that area. But my mother had a very dear cousin who was dying of lung 5:00cancer in Florida and she went down to take care of her in her last few weeks oflife. So, it was very sad and heartbreaking and I had to come to the opening onmy own. But Aaron gave a speech and I'll never forget the symbolism of hisspeech because it exemplified my mother, contrary to what he was saying. Hetalked about a relative of his awaiting on dock as the ship came into EllisIsland and a relative was coming from the Old Country. And they brought theirbaggages with them and the luggage and the -- whatever they had from the OldCountry. And when they got to him and they greeted each other and she said,"Help me carry my bags," he said, "No, you don't need that baggage anymore."Have you read that speech? That's the speech that he gave. It's printed; it'swonderful. "You don't need that baggage anymore. This is America. You don't needall that." In other words -- Yiddish stuff, that Jewish stuff. "You don't need 6:00it. You're in America now." And he threw it into the East River. And then, Aarongoes on to talk about how now the Yiddish Book Center and his work is dredgingback all of that stuff. My mother never threw it in the East River. My motherkept it alive and kept it alive in me, which was wonderful, okay? She was sevenyears old when she came here. She was on one of the last ships, the ship"Byron." And for all the people who are involved with the Yiddish Book Centerand Jewish genealogy, the Ellis Island is a wonderful resource for researchabout the various ships and the passages to America in the late 1800s, early1900s. She came in 1923. That was almost the end of the Ellis Island experience.They were living in a small shtetl [small town in Eastern Europe with a Jewishpopulation] called Stavyshche in the Ukraine, probably not too far from Kiev, 7:00near Berdychiv. I've been hunting around for it and hope to go there someday.But interestingly enough, my mother and my bobe [grandmother], her mother whocame with her, never had any desire to talk about Russia or to go back there. Itwas not a place that they ever had thought that they wanted to do that. And whenI talked about the fact that I'm a history teacher and interested in that, "No,you don't want to go there." And probably because the Soviet Union destroyed allof the villages, changed the names. It's not easy. But I'm certain someday Iwill go and I will discover Stavyshche. That's where she came from. And it wasduring the Russian civil war in 1921, when they escaped. And my mother tells astory -- and, again, it's her story -- that they escaped from Ukraine over theborder into Romania in 1921. And because my mother was probably four, five yearsold at the time, they sewed into her little jacket, they sewed an opening. So, 8:00they put a bag, and in the bag, they had -- any money, any jewelry, any coins,anything of value was sewn into her -- they thought that she would not beinvestigated the way the adults would be. And so, that's how they escaped andthat's what she recalls. And they had to live in Romania for two years untilthey could get passage. They were sponsored by my mother's uncle, her father'sbrother. Now, I never enjoyed having a grandfather on my mother's side. I'mnamed after him. My name is actually Sheyndl. My maiden name is Epstein, so Iwas Sheyndl or Sheyndele Epshteyn and my grandfather, he didn't have anAmericanized name. He was Shimon, I guess. So, I'm Sheyndl bat Shimon. He diedwhen my mother was only two weeks old, so she never knew him either. And mygrandmother was a very resourceful woman and she and my mother and another 9:00sister of my grandmother's came together. And my mother's maiden name was reallyZventisky. That was the family name. But the uncle who sponsored her in Americahad moved to California and he had changed his name to Hoffman. So, that was mymother's maiden name. And her father had three brothers and they all haddifferent names. One, in California, was Hoffman and then two brothers went toCleveland and lived there. And one was Willie Zventisky. He was the older oneand he decided he was going to keep the original name, the original identity.And the next brother changed his name, Americanized it to Venit, V-E-N-I-T. Hewas Sam Venit, so it was a Zventisky, a Venit, and a Hoffman. So, you know whenyou're doing the passwords and all of your online credit cards and other things 10:00you need to show, what's your mother's maiden name, that's the -- Hoffman. Idon't know where it came from but that's my mother's maiden name. And I do haveto show you, if you're interested, some of the original documents from my motherand my grandmother's passage here. And this is, for example, the AmericanConsulate Service. You can see this is July 3rd, 1923. And here she is -- Sure.My grandmother was Sarah, Sure. Now, this says, like, Zewiska. That Zventiskywas transposed a million different ways at every stage of the process. It wasalways spelled differently. And I always knew her as "Bubbie Kaplan" becausealthough she had been widowed at a very, very young age, at some point when mymother was a teenager, she married a Mr. Kaplan from Jeffersonville, New York,up in the Catskills. And she went to live with Mr. Kaplan and with his family 11:00and my mother stayed behind with my grandmother's -- one of her sisters andtheir two children. And because everybody was Sarah -- my father's mother wasalso Sarah, I couldn't call them "Bubbie Sarah." So, I had a Bubbie Epstein anda Bubbie Kaplan, was the last name. And the interesting thing about my life ismy mother-in-law is also Sara, so everybody's Sara. And when my oldest daughterwas born, had to name her after my bubbie, Sarah, but I couldn't name her Sarabecause my mother-in-law was still alive. So, she became Sharon. Her Hebrew nameis Khaye-Sore but anyway, so that's 1923. Here's a photo at Bucharest, inRomania, from getting passage. And that's my mother and my grandmother.Interestingly enough, on the ship "Byron," on the manifest, they had her down as 12:00a little boy because I guess the Buster Brown haircut and so forth.
MG:Is that an official document you're showing?
SH:Yes, it is.
MG:Is that in Yiddish or Hebrew?
SH:That is in Yiddish. That is in Yiddish. And here, I don't know, there's
Zawisha. This is the record. This is what you get when you go on the EllisIsland website. See, they have the name as Zuvinitzka. I said Zventisky,Zuvinitzka. Chavi, seven years old, gender, male. That was wrong. Now, theinteresting thing -- and it says the ship that she came on and the point ofdeparture in Romania. That was in 1923, on the ship "Byron." And I have, athome, a photo, framed, of the ship, as well as the ship manifest, which I don'thave here. And the other interesting story about my mother's passage to Americawas that they didn't celebrate birthdays in Russia. We celebrate yortsayts 13:00[anniversaries of death]. And I don't know if there's any record in any townhall or anything left in Russia. I haven't explored that far. But we don't knowhow old my mother really was or what her birthday was. We never knew how old mybubbie was, really. But again, there's another apocryphal story about -- atEllis Island. My bubbie used to tell it, that they asked -- the officials askedmy grandmother, How old is this little girl? And she says, "Oh, about seven." Idon't know if she -- "about seven." And what's her birthday? And my bubbie said,"Pesach." (laughs) So, according to my mother -- and, again, I don't know ifthis is true but this is the way we learned it, they put down April 1st. Now, mymother says that at age seven, they moved -- I think they first lived in Harlem,then Brooklyn and the Bronx. When she went to school, they put her, I guess, inthe second grade and it was hard to acclimate, obviously. They called her aGreenhorn, she recalls that. And then, when April 1st came along, they calledher April Fools. So, now she says thereafter she changed her birthday to April 14:0015th. I have no idea whether that's true or not but that's the date we alwayscelebrated and that was on her birth certificate. And she was always an April --and the other interesting thing is she died April 10th, 2006, right on the eveof Passover. So, she came into this world, Pesach, that I'm sure of. Mygrandmother was right there. It was Pesach and she died Pesach. And her Hebrewname was Yocheved, and that's Moses's mother. So, there's all that littlesymbolism involved in that.
MG:Did your grandmother ever discuss what life was like in Russia at all or why
they left or --
SH:No, it was in the air. You knew, I mean, you knew they left because of
pogroms. You knew they left -- they were in the middle of the revolution. Youkind of knew that. That was all in the air and there were always people comingover and there were always relatives who you knew were here for thirty years and 15:00others for less. So, I always had the sense that Jews were being persecuted andhad to leave. So, we didn't have to discuss it openly. My grandmother was a veryinteresting person. It was because of her, I believe, that I went to theWorkmen's Circle schools. And that's another interesting part of my life. Itmade me different than my brother and, I think, better in many ways in keepingJewish culture alive. I grew up in an Orthodox home. We kept kosher. There wassome Chinese food in the picture, too. (laughs) On Sundays, we'd go to theChinese restaurant but we'd have vegetable lo mein and not pork lo mein. Butthat's a common thread in a lot of Jewish homes in that era. This was in the'50s. We'd walk to Southern Boulevard, to Charlie's. That was our favoriteplace. And my mother did everything to honor the past and to honor her mother 16:00and her family. And in the home, it was sacrosanct. I mean, we were kosher andit was very, very important. And we belonged to an Orthodox synagogue, theBeekman Avenue shul in the Bronx, near St. Mary's Park. And I recall going tothe shul, which is now a -- Abyssinian church. I was there -- before my motherdied, we had the good fortune to travel there and to look at the shul and go upinto the balcony where the women sat, by the way, and kind of relive some ofthose experiences. And then, fortunately, it was before my mother's Alzheimer'sgot so bad that she couldn't appreciate it and we had a wonderful time. And thepeople who had taken over that church, it was kind of in disrepair. That wassad. But it was still there and the balcony was still there and all the memories 17:00were still there. And I used to recall sitting up in the balcony with mygrandmother and my mother and my father and my brother and my uncles would sitdownstairs. And in the Orthodox religion, the eyes of the men and women weren'tsupposed to meet. That was a no-no. And all I can remember is looking down andtrying to get my father to meet my gaze, to look up at me, and he would. My dadwould. But you really weren't supposed to. And I also recall that in the HighHolidays, I had an uncle who was very Orthodox and he was like a grandfather tome. He was my grandmother's sister's husband. They had never had any children.He treated my mother like his daughter and I was closer to him as a grandfatherthan to my father's father who lived in Williamsburg. And my father lived instoried Williamsburg, yeah, grew up in Williamsburg. And my -- we used to callhim "Unky." He was very Orthodox and the balcony situation was not good enough 18:00for him. They had a separate service for the most Orthodox in the basement wherethey had a true lace mekhitse [partition] where the men and women wereseparated. So, what we did was considered Reform and modern, (laughs) in thebalcony, and my unky had a mekhitse. And I'm bringing that up because when itcame time for me to learn about the Jewish religion, Hebrew, and all of that,girls couldn't be -- there was no such thing as a bat mitzvah and my brotherwas, of course, going to Talmud Torah and he was going to be bar mitzvahed. Andmy grandmother, who used to daven -- she was a real interesting mixture. Sheused to daven at the window every night, on her own, but she was a socialist andshe was a member of the Workmen's Circle. She happens to be buried in theWorkmen's Circle --
MG:This is your father's mother or your mother's?
SH:My mother's --
MG:-- mother.
SH:-- mother, my bubbie that lived with -- she lived with -- I also mentioned my
19:00bubbie after -- I told you she married Mr. Kaplan at some point. Even before Iwas born, he died and she moved back to New York and she lived with my parentsuntil she died. And so, she was a big part of my life. And she's buried in theWorkmen's Circle cemetery in Long Island, in New York. And so, my parentsdecided that they're not sending me to any Talmud Torah. They're sending me tothe Workmen's Circle I.L. Peretz Yiddish schools, because I'm going to learnYiddish, I'm going to learn Jewish culture. And so, as a young kid, maybe -- Idon't know what age I was when I started. I went for four years, several times aweek. In the neighborhood, we had the shul. And my unky, who, again, was like mygrandfather to me as well as my father's father, who was also quite Orthodox, inBrooklyn -- objected strenuously to the Workmen's Circle because it was very --quite secular and many of the teachers were atheists and they didn't want me 20:00attending. But my mother was very stern about it and she said I'm going to thiswonderful -- and my grandmother, of course, supported that, too. After the firstfour years, I graduated what they called, I guess, elementary school. And when Iwas maybe in the sixth, seventh, and eighth grade, thirteen, fourteen, fifteen,for three years I went to the mitlshul, the high school, at Washington IrvingHigh School on Fourteenth Street in Manhattan every Saturday and Sunday. Well,my grandfather and my unky were outraged I had to take the subway. You couldn'ttravel on Shabbos. It was an outrage. They were angry with my parents. But,again, my parents insisted and my bubbie supported it because she was a fiercemember of the Workmen's Circle and believed in everything they stood for. And Ihad a wonderful experience. And my brother, he had his bar mitzvah and he 21:00learned how to daven but I learned Yiddish. We read the "Forward," thenewspaper. Sad to say, I haven't kept up -- I get the "Forwards," the Englishlanguage paper now but --
MG:You said the Workmen's Circle had a socialist orientation.
SH:Yeah.
MG:Did that -- in the 1950s when you were going to the I.L. Peretz schools and
what have you, the country itself was very conservative. How did that work outin terms of your -- the ideology of the country during McCarthyism and all that --
SH:Well, I remember that.
MG:-- with your own -- world?
SH:I'll never forget when Julius and Ethel Rosenberg were assassinated. We had a
very dear friend who was a lawyer, one of my parents' best friends, and itreally impressed me and I remember talking to him about it. I also remember howMcCarthyism seeped into even the little public schools in the Bronx. My motherwas the president of the PTA for years in my school. And so, of course, I was 22:00very proud of that. But even in the PTA, they wanted to have kind of a witchhunt against people -- mothers in the PTA who were socialists, communists. Imean, it was a hard time. And now, I'm a little kid. I don't really understandat all, but I remember dinners at my home or big seders or big New Year'sdinners, Rosh Hashanah dinners, where the family would break up into fights andyou'd hear, "Go back to Russia if that's the way you feel." So, even our family,I could see there was a wonderful woman in our family who's -- they were tryingto get out of the PTA and my mother was in a very conflicted position. She wasclose with this person, she was a wonderful human being, but she may have been asocialist or communist. And again, I was too young to grasp it all, but I gotbits and pieces and I heard that. So, the fact that it even seeped into a littleelement-- PS 65 in the Bronx, New York, is quite something. But I didn't feel 23:00that at the Workmen's Circle. We were immersed in Yiddish and we were immersedin learning Hebrew as a language. We learned about the different forms of theJewish religion. We went to visit a Reform synagogue and a -- Orthodox and soforth. And the Workmen's Circle had one of my favorite memories. They had athird seder every year -- have you heard of that? They published a Haggadah inYiddish. I use that every year at my seder. And they had the third seder at theWaldorf Astoria, in the main ballroom. Thousands of people from all over thecity and I was in the choir. And we sang the partizan [partisan] song, (singing)"Zog nisht keyn mol az du geyst dem letstn veg [Never say that this is yourfinal road]." We sang the partisan song, we sang songs about Egypt and thePharaoh and it was a wonderful, wonderful thing that they had every year. And 24:00that, come full circle, I have a seven-year-old granddaughter who lives inBoston and she just started the Workmen's Circle Sunday School. And she's goingto follow in learning about that.
MG:Was Yiddish spoken in your home?
SH:Yes, absolutely. Yes. Yes.
MG:By what members?
SH:My grandma. Well, my grandmother, my mother. I understood it. I didn't speak
it. I probably could, Ikh ken redn a bisl yidish [I can speak a little bit ofYiddish]. I can understand it. It's sad to me now, there's nobody left to talkto that much. But it was a big, big part of growing up, absolutely. Now, mygrandmother was a lot of fun. She had a really good sense of humor. And youremember the book, "The Education of Hyman Kaplan"? Well, I lived it because mybubbie, her sister, Nekhume or Naomi, my unky, Julius Wolensky, he was the unky, 25:00the Orthodox uncle who was like my grandfather, his wife Chava, Ida. They wentto night school at -- I think in PS 65 and I used to help them with theirhomework. Two "pons pitches," my uncle (laughs) used to write. They had to learnabout fruit one time and it was a riot. It was really funny and it was justright out of "The Education of Hyman Kaplan." But they were determined that mymother -- see, my mother was the oldest child of her generation and she was theleader. And she was also, as I always described it, the eyes, the ears, thefront person for Americanizing the family. She took the lead. She was a verystrong person. She had no dad. My grandmother, turned out, was quite sick a lotof her life. And my mother and father took care of her devotedly. My mother was 26:00extremely strong and then she lost -- my father died when he was onlyfifty-seven and my mother was widowed. And she was very strong and she keptfamily together, she kept Yiddishkayt alive. Very determined, very devoted,dedicated person. So, Yiddish was a big part. And then, my mother, in -- herlast big job was as executive director of the Temple Gates of Zion synagogue inValley Stream, New York. Fairly large synagogue. The rabbi, Simon Resnikoff, wasvery well known in the community. And I think my mother put that profession ofexecutive director of a synagogue on the map. She made it into a professionalundertaking. She had worked in Great Neck previously. But she was an organizerand she was very active. And she created what was -- something that was followed 27:00all over New York and probably elsewhere: the idea of the thing called the"yidish-vinkl," Yiddish corner. And I don't know whether she had it once a week,once a month, but in the synagogue, they -- when you came to the vinkl, youcould only talk Yiddish. That's how you kept it going, that's how you learned.And every year, she put on what she called -- they called -- a herring andpotato supper, a dairy supper for hundreds of people in the ballroom at theTemple Gates of Zion. And they would have -- I don't know if they might even --had Molly Picon. They would have big, big Jewish stars: Theodore Bikel, HerschelBernardi. Different people from that era would come and entertain and my motherwas in charge of that. And I know -- I'm a graduate of Queens College. But whenI went in the '60s, there was no Yiddish studies program. But in the '70s, Ithink Queens was one of the first colleges to have a Yiddish studies program.They invited my mother to the opening of their program because they knew she was 28:00a force in the community, keeping Yiddish alive. So, she considered herself aYiddishist and we were very much Zionists in our family. However, the first timemy mother went to Israel, she was disappointed because Israel tried very hard totake Jewish out of the equation and made Hebrew the language. And I knowinitially in Israel, you couldn't even have Yiddish theater, right? It wasn'treally until '67 or so when Yiddish began to be more accepted. And that was whenmy mother first made her trip there. In the late '60s, she came back, not veryhappy because, "They don't want Yiddish! That's our language, that's our tongue,that's our touch. We need that." And it bothered her. And so, the rest of herlife, she had this kind of love-hate relationship with Israel. She went anothertime after that. My brother lived there for a few years, worked there. But she 29:00was a Yiddishist first and foremost.
MG:Can we talk about your life in New York City? You said you grew up in the
Bronx? What was the neighborhood like? What was the whole experience like?
SH:Yeah, we were in a neighborhood that -- I once met a social scientist from
Columbia University on a plane trip somewhere. And when I told her about my lifegrowing up in the South Bronx, the southeast -- my building is now rubble, okay,which amazes me because I think in 1938, that area of the Bronx, the South Bronxwas really almost like -- suburb, was new. The buildings were built in the late'30s. By the '50s, people were leaving in droves. The neighborhood became moredifficult and more dangerous. But I was there from 1944 till 1959. We moved toLittle Neck in Queens in 1959. And I resented it because the Bronx was exciting. 30:00It was multicultural. We had Irish Catholics, Italian Catholics. We had Jews, wehad Puerto Ricans, we had bla-- we had everybody and I liked it. I liked thatrhythm and that excitement. When we moved to Little Neck -- and my parents wereinvolved. They were very much -- my mother was the executive director of theThird Avenue Merchants' Association in the Bronx. They were trying to beautifythe neighborhood, make it safer. The merchants were working on community causesand my parents were socially active. They were active in the Democratic Party.And when we moved to Little Neck, we moved to a Jewish veterans' place calledDeepdale Garden Apartments that you bought into. And that was the last home mymother ever had. She left there to live with me before she died. But I didn'tlike it. I was fifteen years old. I had to go to Bayside High School, which ismostly white and mostly Jewish. (laughs) And I wasn't used to that. It was 31:00nothing exciting and I used to say to my mother, "You don't have anything to dohere. Everybody else is doing all the work and all the charity work. It's likeyou're not even needed." But she got involved in other things. But I liked mychildhood in the Bronx. It was exciting.
MG:What made it exciting beyond the mixture of people?
SH:Well, I loved when you were eight, nine, ten years old in the '50s, you could
go to the subway yourself and go to Manhattan. And I had a girlfriend who usedto come down with me or meet me after my shul, when I used to go every Saturdayand Sunday. We'd go to the Academy of Music on Fourteenth Street, that bigtheater. We thought we invented or we thought we discovered Elvis Presleybecause we saw "Love Me Tender" there the first time it opened. We went to theautomat. We went to see "My Fair Lady" for five dollars or two-fifty or 32:00something. We'd go to Broadway. On a couple of occasions, the kids in themitlshul went on the Jewish radio station in the afternoon and we did somesongs. And we sang -- I still remember the ditty:"Enge-benge-stupe-stenge-artse-bartse-gole-shvartse-eyngele-beyngele-tsigele-vigele-hek[Eenie-meenie-miney-moe]!" And don't ask me how I remember that but we did somekind of stuff, Jewish songs, little things on the -- so, yeah, it was on theradio. And, of course, my little girlfriend and I, who -- we're still friends tothis day, we used to go to Manhattan and we would fantasize that someday wewould live on Fifth Avenue, Park Avenue and that trip from Southern Boulevardand 143rd Street to Manhattan was only ten, fifteen minutes. It wasn't a longtrip. And it was fun.
MG:Can you describe your actual house in New York?
SH:Well, when my parents first got married, believe it or not, they lived in two
rooms. But the old apartment buildings, the rooms were huge. So a five-roomapartment now, my -- but two rooms and my grandmother lived with us. So, my dadcame back from the war in 1945. My grandmother and I slept in the living roomand my parents had the bedroom. Then my brother was born in 1948. An interestingthing about my brother, he was also born at Beth David Hospital and his name isPaul, Efroyim-Gershon. And my mother tells the story that he was born justaround the time Israel became a state, May of 1948. He was born May 7th, 1948.And she said, "He's the only boy born in the hospital that week who was notnamed Israel." She says, "I don't like the nickname Izzy. I want to name him 34:00Paul." So, she named him Paul. That the story about him. But we continued tolive in that two rooms. And I don't know for how long. But you know, theinteresting thing is when the relatives came from California or Cleveland orwherever, they stayed with us in the two rooms, not the aunt and uncle who hadfour rooms or five rooms but with us. And at some point, we moved upstairs tothe fourth floor to have a four-room apartment, which was humongous, and I sleptin the same room with my bubbie and my brothers stayed in the bedroom with myparents. And then, we had the big living room and a big -- well, not so bigkitchen. And, of course, just one bathroom. I was just joking with my friendstoday how life was much more intimate then because you were in close quarters.One bathroom. You knew what everybody was doing at every time, right? It was adifferent world. Now, we live in these McMansions. We have three bathrooms. Our 35:00children are upstairs, we never see them, that type of thing. Different world.
MG:You mentioned going to the Workmen's Circle schools. You also went to a
summer camp connected to the Workmen's Circle?
SH:No.
MG:No.
SH:I didn't. No, I didn't do that. The Kinder Ring, I didn't do that. I was a
counselor one summer, with my husband, at Golden Ring, which is a Workmen'sCircle camp in the Boston area. But I didn't go to the Workmen's Circle (UNCLEAR).
MG:And what was that experience like, when you were a counselor at that camp?
SH:Well, the year before, I was a counselor at another camp, which is also a
Jewish camp, not connected with the Workmen's Circle, in Cape Cod and that'swhere my husband and I met. So, we were more interested in having a good sociallife, you see? And then you have to understand that about counselors andcollege, but (laughs) it's more about the fun of the counselors than it is the-- but both camps that we went to had that Jewish flavor and services and things 36:00like that.
MG:Yeah, looking back on your childhood, what values or practices do you think
your parents were trying to pass on to you?
SH:Well, probably education, of course, first and foremost. There was a small
part of me being a girl back in the '50s, just the whole idea that I wasn'tgoing to go to Talmud Torah and I couldn't be bar mitzvahed -- I knew there wassomething different about the girls. I enjoyed my experiences but I knew -- Ialways had a sense that the boys were valued a little bit more. Just a slightsense. And the feminist angle, it always bothered me, and I didn't know wherethe sensibility came from, that on big holidays, all the boys and the men wentinto the TV and watched the football and I had to clean the table and do the 37:00dishes with the women. And that bothered me from when I was five years old. AndI don't know, I just had that kind of sensibility. But my father clearlybelieved in education. My mother had a lot of, I think, resentment because shenever went to college. After high school, she had to get a job. Again, it wasjust she and my grandmother and my grandmother was often very ill and couldn'twork. And my mother was a very, very hard worker, very organized, a very brightlady. She took classes and things but she never got her degree. And she had acertain -- part of it was resentment, part of it was regret. The other part ofit was --- "I know plenty of people who have college degrees who are notmensches," that type of thing. You don't need to have -- so, my mother alwaysfelt, yes, you need your education but you need to be a mensch, too. You need to 38:00develop relationships and other things in life, as well. Education was veryimportant. And I don't think for one moment -- I didn't know, from the time Iwas in first grade, that I wasn't going to college. I mean, it was just a given,right? So, I think that was very important. And family. I mean, I think learninghow important family is, the family circle and whether there were arguments ornot, that's where -- you came home to your family, all the time. And it was, asI said, because of the small apartments and the close quarters, I think therewas a kind of an intimacy in family life that we don't have any more today. Andalso, families lived close together. My grandmother's sister lived in the nextbuilding. My unky and his wife, my aunt Chava lived across the street. Anotheraunt lived down the way. By the time you get to the late '50s and early '60s,that's all disappearing. Aunt so-and-so is moving to New Hyde Park or this one's 39:00going to New Jersey and this one's going to California. And the family isdispersing and you don't have that same kind of connection. So, the cousins thatI may have been very close with when I was little -- now it's a struggle to getto see them when we're all scattered. It's a different world. There was thatfamily closeness. The synagogue brought you close, other activities brought youclose. You felt a certain kind of sheltering, a certain kind of safety in that.The New York cities were safer than they were. You could go out on the streetsall the time. You were encouraged. My mother, when I wanted to stay in the houseand play the piano or do work with my girlfriend -- we liked to be indoors alot. My mother would -- "Go out! You need to go outside!" And there was no fearof being outside. And then, my mother had the expression of "BAC" and "AAC": 40:00before air conditioning and after air conditioning. I mean, life in the SouthBronx in our little community -- everyone knew everyone else. The windows werealways open. The mothers and the grandmothers -- was hanging out those windows,calling down to the kids to come up for dinner or do this. My little Irishgirlfriend's dad was always in the bar (laughs) and the mom would call, "Goaround the corner and bang and get your dad." And I always wondered what wasgoing on in the bar around the corner. And the bridge tables were on the streetin the summer. The ladies were playing canasta or mahjong or poker. Everybodywas outside and everybody knew -- and you knew everybody's business. You knewwho was getting along and who wasn't. You heard arguments, right? And then, asmy mother explained it, AAC, after air-conditioning, you don't know yourneighbors, you don't know what's going on, you don't have the block parties, theoutdoor activities. So, something changed. 41:00
MG:You came of age in a very exciting period in American history: the 1960s.
Were there any particular events or individuals who had a -- impact on your lifeduring that period?
SH:Well, I get married in 1965 and I started teaching history at a junior high
school in Brockton, Massachusetts. I was a New Yorker through-and-through. Istill think I am. I haven't lived there since 1965 but you cannot take New Yorkout of a person. There's no question about it. And I was never comfortable inBoston. And for the first time in my life, I felt serious anti-Semitism, fromco-teachers, from educators. I mean, I thought the average Joe on the street,the uneducated people, I can understand they would be anti-Semitic. Buteducators? And they were also racist. This was the period of the Civil Rights 42:00Movement, 1965, '66, '67. Martin Luther King era and here I am teaching history.I'm showing filmstrips of Martin Luther King. I'm reading poems by LangstonHughes to my students. I'm doing a project with the "Boston Globe" to teach themhow to read a newspaper. And left and right, I'm getting -- the principal iscalling me and the parents don't like Langston Hughes. Too liberal. The "BostonGlobe" is too left-wing a paper. I was barely twenty-one years old when Istarted teaching. They considered me this little communist, left-wing, socialistradical from New York. And I was Jewish.
MG:These were the parents and your colleagues?
SH:There was that flavor.
MG:Oh.
SH:Not the colleagues so much. But clearly, there was an air of anti-Sem--
certainly racism. I couldn't get that from educated people. And when MartinLuther King was assassinated in 1968, I was teaching that April. And the head of 43:00my department said to me, "Well, Sheila, your boyfriend got it today." Yourboyfriend. That's what he called it -- so, it was rough and my eyes were reallyopened. And my husband and I chose to live in Dorchester, which was the heart ofthe city because he was an optometric student in downtown Boston. He took the T,the subway, to his school and I took the car down Route 24 to Brockton. So, welived in between and our eyes were really opened by what was going on. Therewere riots, of course, in the cities. There were murder-- shootings on ourstreet, in our building. We were living in Dorchester and it was quite aneye-opener for me. It was very depressing. And people that I knew in New Yorkthink of Boston as a very liberal place because, of course, on the weekends,we'd go to Cambridge and it's a different world. The world of the educators and 44:00the college students in Boston is not the world of the average Joe, the averagecitizen. So, that was quite eye-opening. And after we moved to Connecticut -- Ialways wanted to be a history professor. But you asked about the times we livedin: now the Vietnam War is raging. It's tearing families apart. And I apply toget my PhD in history at the University of Connecticut, where we were living.And I had a girlfriend who was a social worker and we were good friends and wewere very active -- I'm very active in local politics. And national, too. Shesaid, "Why are you going to be in the ivory tower? This is the time for women toget out there and become active and go to law school and medical school and all"-- so, I also studied for the law boards, took them, got into the law school, aswell, and went to law school in 1973. And so the times did have an effect on me 45:00as to what I was going to do. And I often think, well, I should have gone to theivory tower versus -- but I made that decision.
MG:We've been talking mostly about your early life. Can you give us more of a
snapshot of your life today now?
SH:Well, I was a lawyer in Connecticut. I am a lawyer but I retired from active
practice. You're always a lawyer. And I worked in Norwich, Connecticut for overthirty-five years. I was a matrimonial lawyer. I was elected to the AmericanAcademy of Matrimonial Lawyers. Active in my community. I'm a very active memberof Hadassah. Very involved with that. I feel very much Zionist and very muchinvolved with Israel. This is the hundredth anniversary of Hadassah, so I'm very 46:00active with that. I have always been interested in -- I started in politics inConnecticut. I moved there in 1970 and we had a big wrangle in the DemocraticParty in the Senate race that allowed Lowell Weicker, if you remember him, tobecome the senator because the Democrats were divided. Christopher Dodd's fatherhad been censured and decided to run as an independent. And the Democraticcandidate Father Joe Duffy, who we all loved back in 1970, lost because ChrisDodd's dad, Tom Dodd, decided to run as an independent after he couldn't get thenomination. And I got thrown right into the maelstrom of all of that and it wasvery exciting. And I do a talk show now with good friends of mine at the publicaccess station in Norwich, Connecticut. We're on the air every Thursday and weinterview our congressman, our senator, the politicians or teachers, newspaper 47:00people. I enjoy it and we do that show, and I'm also active in domesticviolence. In 2004, I had a client who was murdered by her husband. And I starteda foundation in her memory and I gave money to the Women's Center ofSoutheastern Connecticut. And through them, we put on programs and projectsevery year, conferences. And I also started an Evelyn Epstein MemorialFoundation in memory of my mother, who died of Alzheimer's. And I gave the moneyto my cousin's hospital in Indiana, Pennsylvania. He's a neuropsychiatrist. Hehelped to diagnose my mother and help manage her care and he and his people havebeen great. So, I gave the money to that hospital and every year -- let me showyou this. I go out there to -- we have a conference on Alzheimer's and 48:00caregiving, and this was the conference this year. It's called the EvelynEpstein Caregiver Awareness Program. We've been doing it for five years now andI participate in that and it's very exciting. So, I'm very active in thosethings. Plus, I have five grandchildren and that takes up a lot of time andthat's wonderful and I'm glad that I have the time to share with them, as well.
MG:You had another story, I believe, to share in terms of Yiddish with your mom
and --
SH:Oh, yes.
MG:-- and some singing and --
SH:Yes.
MG:-- and other things.
SH:Oh, I wanted to show this to you. It's sad but it's very interesting. My mom,
as I said, died of Alzheimer's and we had hospice in our home the last few weeksof her life. And they're just wonderful and they helped us along in the deathprocess, which is very important and it was wonderful to have it in my home. But 49:00it's fascinating. Human mind is so fascinating and impossible to fathom. Mymother was having a hard time expressing herself, especially toward the end,composing sentences and getting her thoughts out. But the Yiddish came off hertongue so easily. It was amazing that I found -- and the day before she died,she said to me something that I wrote down because I don't get a chance to writeYiddish enough and any chance I get, I want to do it so I can still know how todo it. And she said to me, "Morgn, ikh vel mer nisht lebn, tomorrow I will nolonger be alive." And she did die the next day. And, of course, again, that wasApril. And she was eighty-nine, ninety. She could have hit ninety. Again, as Itold you, we don't know. She died April 10th and we don't know if she was bornApril 1st, April 15th, but it's Pesach and I guess that's good enough for me. Itwas Pesach. So, anyway, so that's important. And then, because she loved Yiddish 50:00so much and she loved Yiddish music, I studied piano when I was a kid and myparents bought me a Baldwin Acrosonic spinet piano when I was about eight yearsold. And I took lessons my whole childhood. And when I moved to Connecticut, Igot my first house, my parents sent the piano up. But, of course, my dream wasto have a Steinway Grand, which I do have, I bought, and it's a treasure andit's in my living room. But I kept the old piano and it's in an alcove in theroom in my house that used to be the guest room until my mother came and it washer room during the four or five years that she lived with us before she died.And so, we had a ritual where every evening, I would go into her room to saygoodnight and I would sit at the piano and I got all the Yiddish music that I 51:00could get my hands on and we would sing Yiddish songs and help sing her tosleep. That was the kind of thing we did. So, if you like, I'd love to --
MG:Absolutely.
SH:-- put it on record so I remember and get a chance to sing it, cause I don't
always get a chance. Two of her favorite songs were "Ikh hob dikh tsifil lib,""I Love You Much Too Much," and the other favorite song of hers was "Sheyn vi dilevone," right? "Lovely as the Moonlight," right? So, this is -- I'm not goingto sing the whole thing, just the main chorus. (singing) "Ikh hob dir tsifillib, ikh hob af dir kayn has. Ikh hob af dir tsifil lib, tsu zayn af dir in kas.Ikh hob dir tsifil lib, tsu zayn af dir gor beys. A nar, ikh veys, ikh heys. Ikhhob dir tsifil lib. Ikh hob mayn lebn avekgegebn, mayn harts un mayn neshume. 52:00Ikh bin krank, nor mayn gedank trakht nit fun nekume. Ikh hob dir tsifil lib,tsu zayn af dir gor beys. A nar, ikh heys, ikh veys. Ikh hob dikh lib." that's"Ikh hob dikh lib."
MG:Can you share the translation with us?
SH:Sure.
MG:Yeah.
SH:"I love you much too much." Let's see, "to ever be mad at you. I love you
much too much to ever 'gor beyz [very angry]'" -- "gor beyz" and "has [hate]" isthe same idea. "'A nar, ikh heys, a fool,' I know I'm a fool. I know but I loveyou much too much. 'Kh'hob dir mayn leybn,' I gave my lebn away, I gave my lifeaway to you, 'mayn harts and mayn neshume,' my heart and my soul I gave to you.'Ikh bin krank,' I'm sick with love. 'Nor mayn gedank trakht nit fun nekume,'don't think about me. 'Ikh hob dir tsifil lib,' I love you much too much," 53:00again, same idea. So, isn't that nice? Yeah, and "Sheyn vi di levone," ofcourse, "Lovely is the moonlight." How does that one go? Hold on a second, Iused to know these by heart. All right, so this is "lovely is the moonlight,brighter than the starlight, a present from heaven, I know you were sent to me.My luck came to fruition when you came just like a vision, bright as a thousandsuns. You made my dreams come true. I love your smile so bright, sweet andpearly white, and those dark eyes that glisten, the clothes you wear so well,and more than I can tell, I just have to listen. Lovely as the moonlight,brighter than the starlight, a present from heaven, I know you were sent to me."So, that's "Sheyn vi di levone." And I like it 'cause that's my name, Sheyndele- it's a nice -- I like the name. "Sheyn vi di levone, likhtik vi di shtern, fun 54:00himl a matone, bistu tsu mir geshikt. Mayn glik hob ikh gevinen, ven ikh hobdikh gefinen, sheyns vi toysant zinen, hostu mayn harts baglikt. Daynetseyndelekh, vayse perelekh, mit dayne sheyne oygn, dayne kleydelekh, dayneherelekh, host mikh tsugetsoygn. Sheyn vi di levone, likhtik vi di shtern, funhiml a matone, bist tsu mir geshikt, bist tsu mir geshikt." There, didn't quiteget it, but -- (laughs)
MG:There's a question I was going to ask but maybe it's redundant now: what is
55:00your favorite Yiddish word, phrase, or -- of course, song we now know. At leastthe songs --
SH:Yeah.
MG:-- we now know.
SH:Songs, yeah.
MG:Yeah, but --
SH:Well, of course, my mother loved "My yidishe mame [My Jewish mother]." The
most wonderful tape is Neil Sedaka has a fab-- do you know his tape? Best -- sheloved that one, she could play that one all day long.
MG:Do you have a particular phrase from Yiddish or word that somehow --
SH:Oh, I like everything, they're all -- but I can tell you a thing my bobe used
to do to me and my husband, which I always thought was kind of fun. Mygrandmother, she had a hard life and she was very sickly. But she had awonderful sense of humor. She had that twinkle in her eye and she liked myhusband very much. And when we were dating, he'd come down from -- he was inAmherst and when he came down from Amherst to New York, to my apartment onweekends, we had a small -- at that point, we were in a five-room cooperativeapartment in Little Neck but I was at Queens College. He would sleep in the den,or the -- actually, the couch in the living room, 'cause my brother's bedroom 56:00was the den. And we were young and in love at twenty years old and whatever andmy grandmother would come up to us when we were kind of necking and when no oneelse was in the house -- but she was always in the house and she would say, "Akish un a glet," you know, a kiss and you can pet, "a glet, ober" -- but --"vayter, tor men nisht" -- any further you can't go. She used to say that to usall the time. And she would smile and leave the room. So, I remember that about her.
MG:That's great. (laughter) We're nearing the end of our time. So, are there any
other topics that you might want to touch on that you haven't yet?
SH:I have so many things in my mind that I would love to talk about. I'm sure
57:00I'm going to remember them. If you ask me some questions --
MG:Well, let me ask you another one, then. What do you consider the most
important thing to transmit in terms of Jewish identity to younger generations?
SH:Oh, okay, 'cause I think, yeah, this is important because I have, and I think
my husband too, I think we feel culturally very Jewish. And maybe that's why welike the Workmen's Circle because it is embracing your Jewish culture and theYiddish language and the music and the literature, which is all wonderful, andkeeping that alive, but not necessarily with the davening. I can daven. I didhave a bat mitzvah when I was about forty-some-odd years old with a group ofwomen. We had a very nice rabbi who did classes with us and we had a joint batmitzvah. So, I had Haftorah and we had a wonderful time. But I struggle with the 58:00value of davening and prayer. But I love it in the sense of the ritual of it.And I think that's what my mother taught me: honor the past. Go out and haveyour chow mein but honor your heritage. And in your home, treat -- that's whatmy mother did. My grandmother would never go with us, so -- when we went to theChinese. That was not her thing. But I think, know where you came from -- to me,history is so important. That's my favorite thing. And I have children. Both ofmy children married outside of the Jewish faith. Yet my granddaughter is goingto the Workmen's Circle schools. I want them to know that they're Jewishculturally, that they have a fabulous tradition. I sense Yiddish, even though wehave this wonderful center and we have people like Aaron who are keeping it 59:00alive and people like you, I don't get an opportunity every day -- I didn't singthat song as well as I sang it two years ago because I haven't done it as much.I don't sit at the piano and do my Yiddish songs now that my mother is gone. Idon't have anybody to talk to unless I try to find a vinkl somewhere or set itup. I'm losing it. I can't read the "Forward" anymore, which I could read when Iwas going to the mitlshul. So, we're losing that. And I'm more educated than thenext person in Yiddish and I'm losing it. What's going to happen? My childrenmay not know it. I don't know how to keep that alive. History, knowing yourheritage, learning about it, nourishing it. But no one's going to have the samefeeling and flavor that I had, just like no one's going to have -- I can't putmyself exactly in my mother's shoes. My children can't, no matter how much I tryto transmit to them and how many Pesachs we have and how many Rosh Hashanahdinners and how many Hanukkah presents we give, you still can't transmit the 60:00feeling from your generation, from where you lived, you know what I mean? Theydon't feel that way. And my children always tell me that we taught them Jewishvalues of being open, non-racist, embracing everyone. And so, they went out intothe world and did that, so we can't complain. We followed the Jewish values thatwe were brought up with. So that, to me, is a big challenge. I don't know what'sgoing to happen to that Yiddishkayt as -- my mother's generation's almost gone.And my generation is not doing a good job at all and I, at my mother's funeral,I gave a eulogy. I sang those two songs, a lot better than I did today, and Imade a promise to my mother, through the eulogy, that I would try to keep it up.But I'm failing because life is hectic and busy and there's a lot to do. And I'm 61:00not spending as much time -- but I don't have a partner to do it with.
MG:What advice do you have for future generations?
SH:Well, as I said, know your heritage and be proud of it and study it. Our
values, our standards have gone down as far as studying, as far as knowing ourhistory. Our politicians don't know our American history; how can we expect thepeople under them to know it? To me, the lowering of standards and the values --and I'm not conservative. I'm very liberal in my political thinking. But I guessI am conservative in feeling that we -- where everybody's a specialist andnobody really has a fullness of life and knows -- gets the breadth of anappreciation of everything in life. Everybody's in their little niche. And I 62:00just want my children and my grandchildren to remember who I was, who my parentswere, my grand -- I want them to know the history and I want them to save a fewof these artifacts. I know they're gonna throw -- a lot is going to be thrownaway, so I've got to pick and choose as to what the important things are to showthem and have them keep and have them treasure. And I guess, as I said before, Icannot expect them to have the same tam, the same flavor, the same feel that Ihad in life or that my mother had from her life.
MG:Okay. Anything else you would like to perhaps -- comes to mind at this point?
SH:Can we turn the mic off and give me a second?
MG:Ah, well?, (laughter) I don't know, we're at the end here, so we can just
wrap things up if -- I think it's been great what you've shared with us.
SH:I know, but I'm sure I have more but, yeah, I --
SH:Yes, I want to tell you this. Okay, let me just say this, 'cause this is
important, and my mother would appreciate this: this is the biography andmemoirs of Evelyn Zvenitsky-Hoffman-Epstein. This is to show how important theYiddish Book Center was in my mother's life: even though she couldn't make theopening, we came every Mother's Day. We stayed for the exhibits in the morning,then we went to lunch at the Atkins Farm and then we came back for the --usually a klezmer or some other concert. Then, we started to go into the -- whenyou had the orchards set up, we went into the chairs with a tape recorder. Ihave that, the tape recorder with me, actually. And we asked her questions, mytwo daughters, my brother, and I, and interviewed her for an hour or so untilthe concert started and then we transcribed it. So, it took about four or fiveyears of sitting here in the orchards at the Yiddish Center to get her to give 64:00us her life story. And there it is.
MG:And it's all in there and --
SH:It's all in here and transcribed, right. This is her -- right, right, exactly.
MG:It's wonderful.
SH:Yeah. So, she loved the idea of the Yiddish Book Center and was thrilled